Grit (Momentous, 2020)
What is it?
Grit is the ability to keep working toward a goal, especially when it is hard or challenging.
Why is it important?
In school, children are asked to work hard on things that are not necessarily intrinsically motivating. Sometimes they can begin to associate struggle with failure. We want children to learn to feel comfortable with taking risks and working on challenges. When children learn early that they have an inner source of strength they approach life and learning with more confidence.
How to Support Your Child at Home
We Think We Can!
When we see young children encounter problems, it is natural to want to help or possibly do the task for them. Encountering a little bit of struggle is good for young children. Find a small challenge to support your child with, like zipping a jacket or completing a puzzle. When your child feels discouraged or tempted to give up, try asking, “What’s the hard part?” Once they can put into words what is challenging about the task, you can support them in figuring out a plan to tackle the challenge. “What can you do to solve the hard part?” Your child will most likely have a few ideas. Try to let them complete it on their own while adding support. You will be surprised at what your child can do and the confidence they will gain when they complete hard tasks.
