Perspective Taking (Momentous, 2020)
What is it?
A perspective is a particular attitude toward something or a point of view. Perspective-taking is the ability to appreciate the viewpoint of another person, even if it differs from your own.
Why is it important?
Understanding that it is okay for each of us to have our own unique needs, ideas and opinions give us the emotional space to consider perspectives that differ from our own. Seeing things from the perspective of others opens up a whole new world of possibilities and gives us options that would never be available otherwise.
How to Support Your Child at Home
How Do They Feel and What Makes Them Feel Better?
At this age, a child will begin to show concern for others who are upset. However, they often confuse their own perspective with others and need more support understanding that people have different preferences and feelings. Your child may think that since she likes bananas, everyone likes bananas. This type of thinking also leads to actions like giving a crying friend her favorite toy because she knows that is what cheers them up.
Pretend to hurt your finger or that you feel sad. Label your feelings and talk about why you feel that way. Then tell them what would make you feel better. You may also ask them what would make them feel better if they were hurt, pointing out that everyone has different ways of feeling better. Brainstorm with your child ways to help a friend feel better if they were hurt. Give some ideas like going to get an ice pack, helping the other child up if they fell down, or asking them what they need.
